Ugh it's Friday and the last time I posted was Monday. It's been 3 days too many since my last post. Well WHAT can I tell you..
Monday night I watched The Playboy Club and fell in love with it. Although Playboy magazine isn't really my thing, nor is hedonism or Crystal Harris, I am fascinated by Hugh Hefner and the empire he created. I like people who do different things. Push the envelope. Through his magazine, playboy clubs, the bunnies and the mansion itself, in the early 60's Hefner offered a fantasy/lifestyle that went against society's fundamental morals. Talk about pushing the envelope, he threw it across the room. I like his style.
Anyway, The Playboy club is set in 60's Chicago and takes place during the beginning of it all. Mobsters, bunnies, hot shot lawyers, politics, secrets? Yes please. Watch. This. Show.
sourceThis is how I look sitting at my desk too..
sourceWHAT else.
Wednesday was a Bridal Party Spa Night. Photography courtesy of
Lex. She just got a fancy new camera, but it looks like she's been taking professional pictures forever.

The Spa Night was hosted by the Beautiful Bride..

And future Mrs. S..

I'm one of her bridesmaids, remember? Of course you don't. Anyway, she spoiled us with lots of treats..






And gifts..

I can't WAIT for tomorrow, which is the actual wedding day. Judging by Lindsay's good taste, event planning skills and eye for detail, her wedding is going to be over the top phenomenal. Phenomenal, ALWAYS such a hard word for me to spell.
Speaking of weddings, yesterday I stumbled across this article,
Why So Many Of Us Marry The Wrong Person. And WHAT a good article it was. I don't know about you, but I'm always hearing about people getting divorced and I always wonder why. Which one ended it? Who cheated? Who thought the grass was greener? Which neighbor called the police? Who gets the kids? Okay, I don't really know any couple friends with kids but if I did, who gets the kids?
According to this article a large chunk of women KNOW they're marrying the wrong person on their wedding day and these are the top 5 most cited reasons why they do it..
1. We've dated for so long I don't want to waste all the time we have invested in the relationship.
2. I don't want to be alone.
3. He'll change after we get married.
4. It is too late, too embarrassing and/or too expensive to call off the wedding.
5. He is a really nice guy; I don't want to hurt his feelings.
6. I am stupid.
Okay, I added that last one myself. Thankfully, I'm not expecting any changes after marriage. I hope he's not either. I'm never going to do the laundry or steadily pick up after myself. Or wash my hands before touching the cupboards. Maybe I should make that clear incase he's banking on that? Anyway, the moral of this story is calling off a wedding might be embarrassing and expensive, but divorce is embarrassing and expensive. The priest is a priest not a magician. You might not be able to get a refund on your past investments, but you can quit adding to your debt. If you don't want to be alone, buy a dog.
Or buy one even if you accidentally went through with the marriage, they'll give you a whole new set of problems and you'll forget about the rest.

And before I go, this post is lacking FOOD.

TGIF.